Every so often on my Live Journal (shut up you youngins with your Facebook and Ello) I get asked sex questions from readers and respond to them. I figured I'd post the latest question and answer here in case it can help anyone else.
My dominant has ordered me to learn about blow jobs and stripteases/undressing. Specifically, how to do them in a seductive way. I've come to the conclusion that this is one of the few cases where porn might be useful to me, but have no idea where to even start looking or what kind of keywords to use (besides the obvious, I mean), since the last time I tried watching porn was about a decade ago. Any suggestions??
I wouldn't go the porn route. Porn isn't going to show you either act in a a seductive way.
Instead, for striptease ,YouTube is your friend. There are bunch of good tutorials there. I don't want to pick out a particular one for you, because I don't know your tastes, but if you watch a couple you'll get a good idea of what you are comfortable with and what might turn him on.
For blow jobs, I've written a bunch of guides all of which boil down to this:
1. Don't go straight for the cock. Kiss his belly, his thighs, his legs his balls, etc.. for a while before you get near his cock.
2. Start slowly. Just tease the head a bit.
3. Then slowly go up and down the shaft just with your tongue.
4. Back to just the head again and then slowly move the rest of it (or as much as is reasonable) into your mouth.
5. When he starts getting worked up focus your mouth on the head and use your hands on the shaft. Take the shaft back in your mouth when it stops being slippery.
6. Look up at him every little while with puppy dog eyes.
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